‘I’m drowning in debt’: I was scammed by a ‘friend’ who asked me to take out a loan, and I fell victim to identity theft. Can you help me?
‘I am not an idiot. I’m an educated, employed person.’
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The cable guy introduced my 90-year-old stepmother to a new ‘friend,’ and she’s gotten fleeced. Am I legally responsible if she ends up destitute?
‘The bad news is she has welcomed this friend back into her home as a live-in caregiver after kicking her out twice.’
‘We grew up poor and financially ignorant’: My children are 14 and 16. Is it too late to save for their college education?
‘Even thinking about finances stresses us out.’
My brother-in-law has menial jobs, borrows money and lives with his parents. Will I be his ‘keeper’ after his parents are gone?
‘He has little to no savings despite having lived at home for roughly the last 10 years.’
My husband and I have two children. He has a daughter from a previous marriage. How much should I leave my stepdaughter in my will?
‘Over the years we have helped my stepdaughter and her daughter financially, and we are happy to do so.’
‘I grew up an only child’: My father wants me to inherit the family home, but my late mother also had a son from her first marriage. Are we doing the right thing?
'My dad says the house will pass to me in a transfer-on-death deed, so it cannot be contested by my half-brother. Is that correct?'
‘I wouldn’t be successful at my job without her’: My friend cleans, cooks and cares for my child. I pay her $50 a day. Am I taking advantage of her?
'I still nurse my daughter, put her down for naps and change her dirty diapers.'
‘We live in purgatory’: My wife has a multimillion-dollar trust fund, but my mother-in-law controls it. We earn $400,000 and spend beyond our means. What’s our next move?
‘I worry about how much we are spending on dining out and groceries, while at the same time discussing a near $1 million renovation of our apartment.’
I met my wife in 2019 and we married in 2020. I put her name on the deed of my $998,000 California home. Now I want a divorce. What can I do?
‘I make close to $200,000 a year, and my wife makes $78,000.’
‘My husband and my father never really got along’: How do I ensure my husband of 26 years never gets his hands on my inheritance of several million dollars?
‘If anything happens to me, I want my children to inherit these funds.’
‘I’m retired and live off Social Security’: Will canceling 10 credit cards hurt my credit score? If so, how long will it take to recover?
‘I’m a 67-year-old widower with a credit score of around 800.’
My father retired with up to $10 million, and bought my sister a rehab center. He said no to my request to pay for my kids’ education. What can I do?
‘Two of our children have disabilities, and would really benefit from help with education.’
My father named my late mother as a beneficiary on his $80,000 life insurance, but my stepmother says it belongs to her. Who’s right?
‘My stepmother betrayed my dad’s last wishes.’
‘It’s a mother thing’: My kids are authorized users on my credit cards. They’re 25 and 29. Will it hurt their credit scores if I remove them?
‘I suppose one option would be to keep them as authorized users forever, but someday I won't be here.’
‘Cry me a river, right?’: I sold our rental for $325,000. I want to invest the money. My wife wants to pay off our mortgage. Who’s right?
‘Why lock up more than $300,000 in the walls of our home?’
‘I take great pride in my FICO score’: Is it any of Experian’s business how much money I charge on my credit cards?
‘Recently, my credit score fell by 150 points.’
‘I am watching my inheritance evaporate’: My brother and sister constantly hit our parents up for money. What can I do to stop this?
‘My brother’s finances are unstable, and he has a child and a high-maintenance wife. My sister is in an unstable marriage and often needs help.’
‘What is a smart way to diversify?’: I don’t want to lose my life savings. Where do I park my cash?
‘With the fall of Silicon Valley Bank, I need to diversify my funds.’
My girlfriend admitted to having ‘some’ student debt, but I just found out she owes $83,000. Should we still plan to buy a house together?
‘I’m not sure it's my obligation to repay her debt.'
‘I would feel guilty charging her $600’: One of my two roommates moved out, and my girlfriend is moving in. Should I charge her the same rent?
‘My current roommate is paying $500, and the old roommate paid $600. Both are well below market rate.’
My mother’s will leaves everything to her 3 children. My brother died suddenly — and his wife says she will receive her late husband’s share
'Our spouses are not mentioned in her will and she was not a popular member of our family'
